Friday, I'm in love.

So, it's Friday, yay! It's also almost time to go home, even bigger yay!
I actually have plans this weekend which is pretty amazing and rarely happens.. We have like real, grown up, going out plans... with friends. :)

I can't promise I'll blog too much over the weekend. I normally try and spend as much time as possible with the husband.

I can't believe how many views this blog has received.. lol.. It makes me want to type more though!

I figured since I might not have time tomorrow I would go ahead and talk about Love Dare 4. It's all pretty much done during "business hours" anyway.

Love Dare -- Day 4

Love is thoughtful

Love thinks. It's not a mindless feeling that rides on waves of emotion and falls asleep mentally. It keeps busy in thought, knowing that loving thoughts preceed loving actions.

When you first fell in love, being thoughtful came quite naturally. You spent hours dreaming of what your loved one looked like, wondering what he or she was doing, rehearsing impressive things to say, then enjoying sweet memories of the time you spent together. You honestly confessed, "I can't stop thinking about you."

But for most couples, things begin to change after marriage. The wife finally has her man; the husband has his trophy. The hunt is over and the pursuing done. Sparks of romance slowly burn into grey embers, and the motivations for thoughtfulness cools. You drift into focusing on your job, your friends, your problems, your personal desires, yourself. After a while, you unintentionally begin to ignore the needs of your mate.

Ok, I'm skipping the rest, but here is what you are supposed to do:

Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

Question, with my answers:

What did you learn about yourself or your spouse by doing this today? We actually text for no reason all everyday so this doesn't really apply to us.
How could this become a more natural, routine, and genuinely helpful part of your lifestyle? It is already.

So anyway.. here are some random thoughts I had on the way home today.

1. Those dancing sign holders could cause accidents.. there was one that actually danced pretty good, break dancing with his sign on my way home and I couldn't tell you what the sign said but I did want to watch him instead of the road.

2. I wonder if that lady knows her leggings are see through and that she is actually wearing a shirt not a dress.

3. If a friend asks your opinion do they really want the truth?

4. What if you give them your opinion.. it causes a riot.. and then they ask for it again?

Ok.. I'm home and I sure wish my Nook had an app for blogger because it would be much easier than trying to do this the way I am.

I guess I'm going to get off here.. Kayleigh and John are debating about something and she just asked me what a "good rogering" is...